Violence is not my culture
Description
Violence is not my culture is more than a title. It is a clear line in the sand. It says that aggression, abuse and silence are not traditions to be respected, but problems to be named and confronted. The project exists for anyone who has ever heard “that is just how things are” and felt, deep down, that it should not be. The website works as a statement, a space and a tool. As a statement, it gives visitors simple words they can use to distance themselves from harmful norms. It says that loyalty to a family, a group, a neighborhood or a country does not mean accepting violence as part of that identity. As a space, it creates a calm, respectful environment where difficult topics can be approached without blame, sensationalism or graphic images. Content focuses on clarity. It explains how certain attitudes and phrases normalize harm, how jokes and excuses keep patterns alive and how silence protects those who hurt others more than it protects those who survive. Short narratives, reflections and testimonies help visitors recognize situations they may have minimized in their own lives or communities, without exposing them to unnecessary detail. The site invites people to move from awareness to action in small, concrete ways. Learning how to respond when someone shares an experience. Questioning language that disguises abuse as passion or culture. Supporting local organizations that work for safety and dignity. The tone remains firm and compassionate, so visitors feel encouraged rather than judged. Design supports the message. Typography is readable, color palettes are gentle and the navigation is straightforward. Sections on stories, learning, support and ways to participate are easy to find. The experience works on any device, which is essential when someone might be visiting from a shared computer, an older phone or a place where privacy is limited. The goal is to let people arrive, read, think and leave safely if they need to. Violence is not my culture also speaks to allies, professionals and organizations. It offers language they can use in campaigns, classrooms and conversations, and it demonstrates how to talk about violence without turning it into spectacle. By centering human experience and everyday choices, the project shows that culture is not a fixed excuse. It is something we create, protect and change together. For visitors searching online for statements against violence, awareness campaigns or resources that challenge harmful norms, Violence is not my culture positions itself as a grounded, accessible starting point. It is a reminder that refusing violence is not a betrayal of where you come from. It is an act of care for the future of that culture.